Saturday, February 20, 2010

Please don't organize a pity party on your Facebook wall

I wonder if there's a guide to appropriate Facebook status posting and commenting, or even tweeting.  The rapid growth of social media makes all sorts of personal information available, from the trivial to downright intimate, and I'm particularly bothered by people who air out dirty laundry on Facebook, backed up by their friends.  I say ‘backed-up’ because in some instances, it even appears staged - like a page out of the lousy script of a bitter Pinoy romantic movie, the scene where a group of friends are supposed to bash the douche bag - and it's really pathetic to be doing it so publicly when you’re not even a public figure.  Even classy public figures would know which type of information to share and what image to portray.

If you need a lifeline, please phone a friend. Don't ask the audience.

There's nothing wrong with loathing someone and sharing the sentiment with your circle.  Man is born to hate as much as he's born to love. In this day & age, however, a little sensitivity is expected because we all kind of exist in the same network and the information that we share is readily available to everyone. It is as easy to defame someone as it is to create an image of yourself which you would like others to see. For some, it's a defense mechanism to show people how they're coping with an issue.  That's fine as long as they don't sink to the lowest level of pathetic-ness.  I feel sorry for people who look like they’ve got so much class only to lose all of it the moment they open their mouths or when their fingers come in contact with the keyboard.  Just like how the pretense of successfully bouncing back from a failed relationship appears like a bitter joke if  one party continues to publicly denounce the other.

Not to sound preachy about this, I must admit that there are instances where I’m also guilty of sending the negative vibes through the interweb. The difference is I do not promote it.  It's just an outlet for me and I’m not soliciting any type of support or sympathy from others. My blog posts, tweets and updates are not meant to illicit any form of untoward judgement on anyone.

I’m sure someone somewhere is already writing the universal guide to social media etiquette. And I'm sure people wouldn't adhere to it.

And someone somewhere is creating a Facebook page about a bitter break-up titled John Tucker Must Die. Become a fan.

Friday, February 19, 2010

That is our question, are you truly one of us?

As of writing, Tiger Woods just finished delivering his first speech after he got embroiled in a really nasty scandal. Whether he's sincere or not is beyond me. Wala naman akong paki sa life niya talaga eh.

Actually, I don't know why I wrote that opening sentence for this post. Hahaha!

Anyway, came across this video on Facebook today which was made by a group of Ateneans. Love it!!! Hail the Genuinely Poor!


Wednesday, February 17, 2010

New Greenwich Commercial = WIN!

Super LOL moment when this came on the TV while we were having a late dinner last night.  This is so true -- I've met people like this na may 'arrive' but then... toink! hahahahahaha





Aylaveeeeeeeeet!

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

jchoiy

I'm getting tired of my username.  It's actually not something I came up with -- it's a written version of how a classmate in college mispronounced my name every time he uttered the word because he had difficulty pronouncing Js.  My friends soon pronounced it in the same way to annoy me over and over until I got used to it and owned it.

I have to note that this was way way before the time when it became trendy to put an H after the first letter of the name (Bhabes, Mhar) because I believe that trend became popular when text lingo evolved to from super abbreviated (c u tmrw, k, wru n) to this phase that I refuse to call jologs (d2 n poh me) only because I know certain people who actually do that and I tell them not to text me that way but they don't listen! Do people not notice that even if it took me 6 batches of messages, I do not abbreviate?  Can we not apply verbal communication rules to SMS? Like when the question is in English, you have to answer in English.  Same with SMS, can it be that people reply in the same manner that they received the message? Haha. Di naman ako galit. I digress. Fine. Txt m ko lyk dat f it mkes u hapi.

Anyway, my point is that it wasn't spelled as such because I wanted a n H in my name, hehe.  The good thing about it is I think nobody else in the world owns it.  When I Google my username, majority of the hits would link back to my sites like Multiply, Facebook, MySpace, Twitter, YouTube, comments I made on other people's pages, this blog, and a lot of other things.  I think the first 3 pages are all related to me.  Just don't Google my real name, though -- majority of the hits to that one would link back to international news sites which published a photo of me holding out a certain toy. The Google results from my username is even more accurate than my real name.

And now that I joined tumblr (yes, another microblogging site), I found myself thinking of a new username but I still ended up using the one I have now (yung Ferrarilover134... eeeeew, haha, kidding!).  It's just like my mobile number -- I almost changed it a couple of times to get a new phone or whatever but in the end, I decided against it.  I've had it for more than 10 years, dating back to when I first got my Nokia 5110 in 3rd year highschool.  It was one of the first mobile numbers issued by Globe after SMS was first introduced in the late 90s (the first mobile numbers started with 5 and then 8).

So, even if it already seems baduy to me, I'm probably keeping my username until I think of something unique that I'd want to use around cyberspace for the next 10 years.

k, un Lng p0h. nyt! Lolz!

Tuesday, February 09, 2010

This sign isn't applicable in our office.


Because we're predominantly Bejeweled Blitz-ers. Hurrah!

Saturday, February 06, 2010

Overheard at the Ateneo

Favorite entries from my new favorite website (Click on blog title to view):

Theo Prof: So class, what was Jesus' religion?
Students: Sir, Jew?
Theo Prof: Brilliant! He was a Jew. It's a good thing he didn't live in the mountains.
Students: ....
Theo Prof: Because then he'd be a Mountain Jew
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Father Dacanay: (to his students na mag-on daw) do you kiss?
Couple: of course father
Fr Dacs: like in the movies, do you close your eyes when you kiss?
Couple: Yes father
Fr Dacs: why?
Girl: to shut off the whole world po, so that all i can feel is his kiss...
Guy: kasi father, pag nakadilat ako, maduduling ako kasi sobrang lapit nya...
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Frat war fail...

Fratman U bumps Fratman A near flagpole in Rockwell
A: Anung problema mo?
U: Eh ikaw anong problema mo? Papalag ka!?
A: Ano gusto mong suntukan?
U: Sige tara! Ano? Ha!? Papalag ka?
A: Tara sa parking lot ng Powerplant!
U: Sige wait lang magcclass lang ako!
A: Sige ako rin magcclass lang.
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finals:

classmate 1: chong anong pre-finals grade mo?
me: c lang bakit
classmate 1: *ngumiti at pumunta kay classmate 2* anong pre-finals grade mo?
classmate 2: b bakit?
classmate 1: tabi tayo.
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Two seniors talking about immersion: 

student 1: San ba immersion mo?
student 2: Sa ano daw....IP.. Indigenous Poor
student 1: ah...? parang mali... Indigenous People kasi!
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Math prof: What is = "2 apples plus 3 apples"?
Class: Ano po?
Math prof: A problem from la salle
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I heard this story once about how Fr. David supposedly went to the province, together with some Jesuits, for a retreat or something. On the last leg of the trip, they apparently had to take a bus to the destination; LSD came in last and sat away from the other Jesuits. During that time a man sat down next to him; he did not know the man was carrying a knife. The man had been poking LSD's side with the knife; annoyed, and oblivious to the the man's true intent, he supposedly looked straight at the man and shouted 'WILL YOU STOP THAT?' It was only later that he figured out it was a robbery attempt. Hahaha saved by conyo.
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Padre Ferriols Urban Legend:
Philo Class in Filipino...
A female student recited and kept on talking in english
Padre: hija, bakit ka ingles nang ingles?
Female student: kasi hindi ko po feel pag sa tagalog
Padre: P******** m*!!!
Female student: huhuhu (cried)
Padre: ano? feel mo na?
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Fr Ferriols Ph 101 class in 2001. Padre was by that time frail and moved very slowly and carefully. He was listening to one nervous student ramble helplessly during a regular oral recitation, when he suddenly banged his fist on the table (making us all jump in our seats) and roared, "Bakit ka ba nagtatago sa GUBAT NG SALITA!!"
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Another Padre Ferriols urban legend:
Padre: Prove to me that this chair does not exist.
Student: What chair?
Student got an A+, and Padre Ferriols insisted that the registrar put the A+ mark on the student's card.
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May isang mag-i-immersion na hindi magaling magtagalog, kaya nanuod siya ng mga soap opera para masanay. Pagdating sa immersion, sabay tanong sa foster parents: "Gaano katagal na ho ba kayong HAMPASLUPA?"

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Sa Ateneo, jologs ang pumansin sa estudyanteng artista na hindi mo close”

 

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Sa Ateneo lang ipoprotesta ang pagbawal ng tsinelas (flip flops) pero hindi pagtaas ng tuition.”


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3 tipsy students:
J1: Fuck you.
J2: With what?
J3: With CONVICTION.


haha. there are more than a thousand entries already. Congrats to the group admins!

Friday, January 22, 2010

Friday, January 08, 2010

tumblr-ing


Wednesday, January 06, 2010

Chris Cornell says...

that he is bigger than what you take him for.


I am the Highway
Audioslave


Pearls and swine bereft of me 
Long and weary my road has been 
I was lost in the cities 
Alone in the hills 
No sorrow or pity for leaving I feel 

I am not your rolling wheels 
I am the highway 
I am not your carpet ride 
I am the sky 

Friends and liars don’t wait for me 
I’ll get on all by myself 
I put millions of miles 
Under my heels 
And still too close to you 
I feel 

I am not your rolling wheels 
I am the highway 
I am not your carpet ride 
I am the sky 
I am not your blowing wind 
I am the lightning 
I am not your autumn moon 
I am the night 
The night 

I am not your rolling wheels 
I am the highway 
I am not your carpet ride 
I am the sky 
I am not your blowing wind 
I am the lightning 
I am not your autumn moon 
I am the night 
The night 

Saturday, January 02, 2010

2009

Because it's one of those nights when I come home and, instead of crashing into bed, I just couldn't sleep. If anyone wanted to play Frisbee with me, I would have accepted the challenge! Right now, at 3:30 a.m..


What did you do in 2009 that you’d never done before?
Have a major breakdown in front of pedicab drivers!
Travel outside of Asia
Travel alone (which includes taking a long flight home, taking the bus and the train from one city to another late at night)
Loaded unleaded gas on a diesel car – of course the car broke down haha
Lived on Gatorade for two full days without solid intake


Did you keep your new years’ resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
No. I don’t make resolutions.


Did anyone close to you give birth?
Yes.


Did anyone close to you die?
Thankfully, no.


What countries did you visit?
U.S., HK, Singapore. All work-related. Dad planned on Thailand but mom’s health didn’t make it possible.


What would you like to have in 2010 that you lacked in 2009?
What did I lack in 2009? Hmmmmm... I don’t know. I mean, my life is not perfect but it’s also not that bad. I enjoy whatever I have. I wasn’t short on money or love or anything so I don’t know what I lacked in the previous year which I’d like to have in 2010.


This question made me think and I realized it’s similar to an observation I had during one of those highschool retreats when everyone opened up and shared their problems with the class.  While the rest had huge issues (broken families, drunk daddies, second families, sibling rivalry, etc), I didn’t have anything of that magnitude to share during my turn.


Perhaps I’d just like to have more strength, patience, fortitude, resilience and perseverance – not for lack thereof. I just want to have more.


What sporting events did you go to?
Just UAAP.


What concerts did you go to?
Eraserheads. 2009 was more of an R&B concert year, which of course didn’t interest me. Was supposed to see NIN but...


Who was your Valentine in 2009?
Valentines? I will file a motion to remove it from the calendar.


Did you suffer illness or injury?
Had an AH1N1 scare but that was just paranoia on my end. Turned out to be a unique case of stomach flu.


What was your best month?
A toss-up between March and October. I always like March.


Where did most of your money go?
Random stuff not relevant to the future.


Did you fall in love in 2009?
Errrr... Did I? :)


How many one-night stands?
None.


What did you get really, really, really excited about?
Formula 1. It’s a good diversion and I like following it a lot.  2009 was a pretty interesting season with Lewis Hamilton’s liegate scandal, then Renault’s crashgate, Ferrari’s threat to leave the sport, Massa’s accident, Schumi’s return, Kimi’s sabbatical, Toyota and BMW’s departure, Brawn’s Victory, and Abu Dhabi.


Ateneo’s 2nd consecutive UAAP Men’s Basketball Victory


First trip to the U.S.


There were times when I got excited about life in general, for no specific reason. Like the opposite of random depression when I couldn’t point out why but I just know I’m sad. I can get really, really, really excited about simple things like going on road trips, seeing my cousins/friends, etc.


What songs will always remind you of 2009?
I Gotta Feeling by the Black Eyed Peas
Use Somebody / Sex on Fire by Kings of Leon
Time to Pretend by MGMT
And the annoying Nobody Nobody but You.


What were the best...

* books you read?
The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo / The Girl Who Played with Fire by Stieg Larsson. Really good murder mystery series.  I’ve yet to acquire a copy of the third and final book.


Invisible Monsters by Chuck Pahlaniuk. Psycho-thriller with an interesting twist. Exactly what you’d expect from the author of Fight Club.


Good Omens: The Nice and Accurate Prophecies of Agnes Nutter, Witch, Neil Gaiman and Terry Pratchett. A really funny and witty portrayal of Angels and Devils, the Good and Bad. Love it!

* movies you saw? 
Avatar
500 Days of Summer
The Hangover
The Curious Case of Benjamin Button
Transformers: Revenge of the Fallen (a lot of people didn’t like this but the action alone made me love it!)
Monsters vs. Aliens (LOVE Seth Rogen!)
Xmen Origins: Wolverine
Watchmen
Star Trek (one of the best!)

* CDs you listened to?
Day & Age, The Killers
Only by the Night, Kings of Leon
Intimacy, Bloc Party
Perfect Symmetry, Keane
Endings of a New Kind, Taken by Cars (only local artist in my 2009 playlist!)


What do you wish you'd done more of?
Sports. Who am I kidding? Haha


What do you wish you'd done less of?
I don’t know... seriously. I might have wasted my time on Vampire Wars.


How did you spend Christmas?
With the family as per tradition. It’s one of the funnest Christmases ever.


What was your favorite TV program?
Didn’t get to watch as much TV as I would’ve wanted but in terms of series, I liked True Blood, Entourage (always), Gossip Girl (of course) & Grey’s Anatomy.


Glee was perhaps the big reveal in 2009 but I’m not as into it as the others. It bores me sometimes.


Compared to this time last year, are you:

* happier or sadder?
Happier.

* thinner or fatter?
uhmmmm.... (falls asleep)

* richer or poorer?
Richer?


What was your favorite summer memory of 2009?
Spending a weekend in Tagaytay with the family. That was a lot of fun; Driving to Batangas and Tagaytay with friends. I love road trips especially when I’m behind the wheel; and Boracay for the office outing (it wasn’t as fun as the previous ones but fun nonetheless. I always get a natural high when I’m on the beach).


What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
What did I do... I don’t remember the specifics. Too bad I don’t blog about my birthday! Definitely dinner with the fam, drinks with friends... But I don’t remember right now where.


What was your greatest musical discovery?
None. The artists I listened to in 2009 aren’t new.  Does rediscovering Michael Jackson count?


Which celebrity/public figures did you fancy the most in 2009?
Kimi Raikkonen, Sebastian Vettel, Nico Rosberg; James Franco & Ed Westwick; Locally, there’s Derek Ramsay (!)


Who was the best new person you met?
Best new person... Nobody stands out. Although I wish somebody did.


Where were you when 2009 began and who were you with?
Family then friends.


What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
If I had seen the F1 race in Belgium from the grandstands. I like that track a lot. Would've been nice to have seen a race while Raikkonen was still in F1. If I'm going to invest in a race ticket, it would have to be in a guaranteed exciting track like Spa Francorchamps in Belgium, Interlagos in Brazil, Suzuka in Japan, Monza in Italy (pure Ferrari passion), Silverstone in Britain, and of course Monaco (as if we can afford it. We're going to look like peasants there!). In Asia, China, Malaysia are okay.

Herman Tilke designed tracks have not produced anything exciting over the past couple of years. Singapore's only claim is that racing is done at night but there's no action because the track does not inspire overtaking. Same with other Tilke tracks like Valencia (procession), and Abu Dhabi (spectacular backdrop, dullest race ever). So if you just wanna be there to hear burning rubber and look at the cars, Singapore should be fine. If you want racing action, it's not the most ideal track to visit.


What kept you sane?
Friends. Beer. Music. Twitter, Facebook and Blogger.


What political issue stirred you the most?
Ampatuan Massacre


Who did you miss the most?
My brother. Every damn year since 2000.


Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2009.
There’s no use in worrying about things you cannot change.


Quote lyrics of a song that sums up your year.

We need to rage through this life
There might be ones who are smarter than you
That have the right answers, that wear better shoes
Forget about those melting ice caps, 
We're doing the best of what we've got.


-Sunday, Bloc Party


Such a sweet song. Romantic but not mushy.



What are your plans for 2010?
Nothing. For once, I’ll take it easy and go with the flow.




Answered a similar questionnaire in 2007. See here.